When a person is important to you, what would you want to do for that person?
Try your best to make him or her happy? or
Try your best not to make him or her sad?
Which do you think is the best for that person and which do you think is easier to achieve?
Everyone knows we naturally tend to remember the sad moments than the happy moments easily, else we will not keep receiving those motivation taglines, poems, articles and etc that advise us to pick up the positive and let go the negative.
Hence, if I were to choose, I would rather try my best not to make the person I care the most feels sad, as I realize, if you are free of sadness for a second, you gain a second of neutral feeling or perhaps a minimun happiness, which definitely will not spoil your day.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008
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3 comments:
Aiyo...
very the deep article...
Can i say, i just know i want to share all my happiness n sadness with the one i care. And i do also hope he/she will share with me all his/her sadness n happiness?
Humans are not perfect. Sometimes it’s hard to avoid making mistakes that unintentionally hurt someone else. At the end of the day, it is the sad and happy moments that make up our life, isnt?
So, why not ‘help’ each other by sharing it out sincerely and healthily, I guess that is where the appreciation and treasure coming from…
Boon Chin
Yes, this should be the way, share both happiness and sadness with each other and unintention mistakes should be forgiven as nobody is perfect, true. However, what if you know very well what would make him/her sad, yet you are still repeating things that would make him/her sad, is that still called Unintention Mistake? Should it still be forgiven? How many times you can forgive?
Plus, you may want to share your happiness and sadness with him/her, or you wish he/she does the same to you too, but this only works when both are the right persons, correct?
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